Dear S&H, 

I was wondering if you could post this on your website. I recently got married and just realized how genuinely unhappy I am. We've been in love and I thought we knew each other but it turns out marriage is overrated. We are both pretty unhappy and we can't figure out what went wrong. We've known each other for a while and it seems that there are couples that have known each other longer that divorce and couples that have known each other not so long that last. Is there some formula we are unaware of? 

We're constantly clashing adn we can't really figure out what went wrong. Any advice from anyone married out there? 

Thanks!