Cairo, this is a sensitive subject, help a reader out! 

S&H, 

Please post this on your site. I have a bit of an issue, my friend wants to do that virginity surgery (you know the one where they fix it). I don't want to overstep but I don't think she should do it! It seems pretty popular these days but she lost it to her fiance of a few years and they broke up and I don't think its fair to lie about it to her next guy. It will also entail so much on her body and lies all over the place to her family and friends. I just don't think she should do it. Is it my right to interfere or just support her and go with her? I'm wondering if anyone has done it or can give me some input so I'd appreciate if you post this, thanks.

Our suggestion? As a friend, you should be able to give her your input objectively but at the end of the day it's her decision and your interference has a limit. Best of luck and we trust that your fellow readers give you some good advice. Let us know what happens!