From one of our readers:

"Dear S&H,

My issue isn't really a matter of life or death but it's annoying one and I don't know what to do. I'm getting married in a few months and I just wanted to know, is it okay to invite your ex? We used to be engaged and we had a pretty bad break up but a good amount of time has passed and we're on pretty good terms right now...but still, do I invite them to my wedding? Won't that be awkward? We did have a pretty long and heavy history and even though I've moved on completely, I just don't know what the social rules are in this case. We still have all the same mutual friends and I'm pretty sure if I invite them everyone will look or comment when they walk in...but also, if I don't invite them I don't know if I'm being rude and making it more awkward. I just don't know what to do. Help?"

Our advice: Ask your fiance first if they mind. If everyone is on good terms and your relationship with them now isn't awkward now and you're on pretty good terms like you said, then what's the problem? If you have both moved on then they should be happy for you. People will talk either way so don't ever let that be the reason you do or don't do anything. Best of luck and congrats!

Cairo...what do you think?