July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

Im the second annon...  merci walahy

and i still support what i said and i think u should do as i previously suggested...

dont rush into things darling... u will be faced with many of these temptations... begad....

July 12, 2010 16:34

nashat 'style' eldemerdash said...

1. prejudging the poor soul and dismissing her rapport with male #2 as a fast crush is wrong! You don't know her!

2 chemistry is all that people have after many a year of marriage, it never fades OUTSIDE BEAUTY FADES but not chemistry.

3 when something is built on quick sand it is never solid ie. fooling yourself into thinking a relationship is solid.

4 a woman's instinct is always to go with her get feeling and choose the most compatible partner IT"S JUST NATURE!

5 slow down a bit with your B/F and think things through YOU WON"T MARRY HIS FAMILY!

and i'm sure he will understand!

with love N

July 12, 2010 16:34

nashat 'style' eldemerdash said...

'life will throw at you temptations and it will take a very solid and honest relationship to fight these temptations...'

exactly #2 it will take a stable relationship to thwart life's temptations. so if she has eyes now and seems to be ify early on then that 'SOLID' relationship is nothing but she fooling herself into thinking that!

Solid is a combination of thing but i'm sorry #2 it does not mean settling!

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

oh and by the way... this doesnt by any means mean settling... it means that she should think with her self and not rush into something that might ruin what could be/is the man of her dreams (as cliche as that sounds)...

besides.. .she could be looking outside for something that she cant find inside (on a subconsiouce level.. i can never spell this word) so AGIAN,.. she needs to sit with herself and ask her self several question before she jumps to conclusions.

this is anon #2 again..

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

it has nothing to do with being immature susan... stuff like that happens!!! if it never happened to u then well.... i could say loads but i wont....

July 12, 2010 16:34

Ice Queer said...

Ahmose:
When u post such a big problem in ur life on a website 2 seek solutions and advice from complete strangers, then yeah it's jokes time!

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

id you are having doubts then maybe you should think getting committted over because you clearly don't know what you want and trust me dont rush into anything that you might regret. best of luck

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

above anon, nice one

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

I dont think you should leave what seems to be a healthy and stable relationship (unless your unhappy) on a whim like that.

In life, you will meet people who you will click with and possibly even have more chemistry than ur bf/husband wtv... but that doesnt mean you will have to think twice or become hesitant about your current relationship.

I think you need to sit with ur self and ask ur self some questions, one of them being; are u rushing this 2erayet fat7a? are u happy? is there a reason why you are looking outside? u get my drift...

But in conclusion darling, dont ruin this relationship because life will throw at you temptations and it will take a very solid and honest relationship to fight these temptations...

Good luck!

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

es2alo raga2 !! Ousama Mounir !!!!

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

leave him! the fact that ur having doubts says it all! and ur choice of words hows that ur not truly satisfied coz u keep saying that the other one is better.. or that ur missing on something better.. the fact that he isnt good enuf or the best thig out there in ur eyes then u shouldbt be with them.. coz ull have chemistry with other ppl but u wont view them as better.. move on with ur life and fix ur loyalty issues..

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

Im with the 2nd anon that u need to sit with yourself and ask some hard questions and be very honest with yourself. I agree more with the 4th anon, your choice of words feels more like you are not really satisfied with what you have and you feel its a comfy relationship. I do not think its fair to just settle with someone just because he gives u the feeling of a comfy relationship and it is also not fair for your BF.
Yes, in life you will meet interesting ppl but if you are in a relationship that you wanted and is satisfied with you wont even give them a second look and I disagree that you might meet others that you click with more than your partner because one of the reasons why you are with this partner is that you "really" click and get each other on so many different levels. My advice, do not do what many girls do (I am a girl too) and go for the comfy relationship be brave and honest with both yourself and your BF and if the answers you have reached are not in support of this relationship then break it off and give it a shot but never look back and never regret doing so if it didnt work out with that other person because after all youve done the right thing.

July 12, 2010 16:34

Ice Queer said...

Have a 3some and c which one "suits" u more! ;)

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

leave him! the fact that ur having doubts says it all! and ur choice of words hows that ur not truly satisfied coz u keep saying that the other one is better.. or that ur missing on something better.. the fact that he isnt good enuf or the best thig out there in ur eyes then u shouldbt be with them.. coz ull have chemistry with other ppl but u wont view them as better.. move on with ur life and fix ur loyalty issues..

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

Im with the 2nd anon that u need to sit with yourself and ask some hard questions and be very honest with yourself. I agree more with the 4th anon, your choice of words feels more like you are not really satisfied with what you have and you feel its a comfy relationship. I do not think its fair to just settle with someone just because he gives u the feeling of a comfy relationship and it is also not fair for your BF.
Yes, in life you will meet interesting ppl but if you are in a relationship that you wanted and is satisfied with you wont even give them a second look and I disagree that you might meet others that you click with more than your partner because one of the reasons why you are with this partner is that you "really" click and get each other on so many different levels. My advice, do not do what many girls do (I am a girl too) and go for the comfy relationship be brave and honest with both yourself and your BF and if the answers you have reached are not in support of this relationship then break it off and give it a shot but never look back and never regret doing so if it didnt work out with that other person because after all youve done the right thing.

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

leave him! the fact that ur having doubts says it all! and ur choice of words hows that ur not truly satisfied coz u keep saying that the other one is better.. or that ur missing on something better.. the fact that he isnt good enuf or the best thig out there in ur eyes then u shouldbt be with them.. coz ull have chemistry with other ppl but u wont view them as better.. move on with ur life and fix ur loyalty issues..

July 12, 2010 16:34

Ahmose said...

Ice Queer.. thats a shitty comment..
She needs help.. it is not the right time for jokes.

Sister, there will always be men who look better than your current bf, and who are more funny, and who are more smart,and more etc.. But you have to value the complete package of your current bf.
his interests, his humor,his looks, his brains, his career visions, his family visions..

Whats also important is your previous experience. Did you tend to feel attracted by other guys while you were in a relation? did you go for them?

Some people simply have fast crushes but they dont stay long.
Whenever I am in a relation I still feel that there are other girls who have a higher chemistry but thats always a very short impression and it disappears fast and I always stayed with my gf..

Whats also important.. When you met your bf the first time. Did you feel that there is chemistry?
You know, chemistry with time decreases.. So think of the complete picture...

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

Im the second annon...  merci walahy

and i still support what i said and i think u should do as i previously suggested...

dont rush into things darling... u will be faced with many of these temptations... begad....

July 12, 2010 16:34

nashat 'style' eldemerdash said...

1. prejudging the poor soul and dismissing her rapport with male #2 as a fast crush is wrong! You don't know her!

2 chemistry is all that people have after many a year of marriage, it never fades OUTSIDE BEAUTY FADES but not chemistry.

3 when something is built on quick sand it is never solid ie. fooling yourself into thinking a relationship is solid.

4 a woman's instinct is always to go with her get feeling and choose the most compatible partner IT"S JUST NATURE!

5 slow down a bit with your B/F and think things through YOU WON"T MARRY HIS FAMILY!

and i'm sure he will understand!

with love N

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

id you are having doubts then maybe you should think getting committted over because you clearly don't know what you want and trust me dont rush into anything that you might regret. best of luck

July 12, 2010 16:34

Ahmose said...

Respect to the second anon..

July 12, 2010 16:34

nashat 'style' eldemerdash said...

'life will throw at you temptations and it will take a very solid and honest relationship to fight these temptations...'

exactly #2 it will take a stable relationship to thwart life's temptations. so if she has eyes now and seems to be ify early on then that 'SOLID' relationship is nothing but she fooling herself into thinking that!

Solid is a combination of thing but i'm sorry #2 it does not mean settling!

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

leave him! the fact that ur having doubts says it all! and ur choice of words hows that ur not truly satisfied coz u keep saying that the other one is better.. or that ur missing on something better.. the fact that he isnt good enuf or the best thig out there in ur eyes then u shouldbt be with them.. coz ull have chemistry with other ppl but u wont view them as better.. move on with ur life and fix ur loyalty issues..

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

oh and by the way... this doesnt by any means mean settling... it means that she should think with her self and not rush into something that might ruin what could be/is the man of her dreams (as cliche as that sounds)...

besides.. .she could be looking outside for something that she cant find inside (on a subconsiouce level.. i can never spell this word) so AGIAN,.. she needs to sit with herself and ask her self several question before she jumps to conclusions.

this is anon #2 again..

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

it has nothing to do with being immature susan... stuff like that happens!!! if it never happened to u then well.... i could say loads but i wont....

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

above anon, nice one

July 12, 2010 16:34

Susan said...

I would normally say the things anon #2 said but, quite frankly, the fact that you're having these issues means you're too immature to start the process of getting married.

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

I dont think you should leave what seems to be a healthy and stable relationship (unless your unhappy) on a whim like that.

In life, you will meet people who you will click with and possibly even have more chemistry than ur bf/husband wtv... but that doesnt mean you will have to think twice or become hesitant about your current relationship.

I think you need to sit with ur self and ask ur self some questions, one of them being; are u rushing this 2erayet fat7a? are u happy? is there a reason why you are looking outside? u get my drift...

But in conclusion darling, dont ruin this relationship because life will throw at you temptations and it will take a very solid and honest relationship to fight these temptations...

Good luck!

July 12, 2010 16:34

Anonymous said...

es2alo raga2 !! Ousama Mounir !!!!